WINNIPEG — The Winnipeg community is grieving deeply after the tragic death of 27-year-old Desirae “Dez” Gonczy, who was killed in a devastating car crash over the weekend. Her passing has left an indescribable void in the lives of her family, friends, and all who were lucky enough to know her. Loved ones say her life was filled with promise, love, and purpose—beautiful chapters cut short far too soon.
From a young age, Desirae radiated a special warmth that made people gravitate toward her. Those who watched her grow—from a bright, spirited girl into a strong and compassionate woman—felt immense pride in all she became. She had recently welcomed her youngest child just five months ago, embracing motherhood with tenderness, joy, and remarkable dedication. Her children were the center of her universe, and she worked tirelessly to build a life filled with safety, love, and opportunity for them.
For her closest friends, some of whom shared over 30 years of memories with her, the loss feels almost unbearable. Dez was more than a friend—she was steady, loyal, and loving. She stood beside those she cared about through triumphs and heartaches, offering strength even when she was quietly carrying her own. Those lifelong bonds have now become pillars of support for her family as they navigate a grief no parent, sibling, or friend should ever have to endure.
Desirae had a rare gift for making people feel seen and valued. Even new friendships felt like they had roots stretching back decades. Neighbours became family. Moments spent walking along the beach, sharing sunny afternoons by the water, swapping stories about motherhood, and watching their children play are now cherished memories woven into the hearts of those who knew her. Her laughter was unforgettable—full, warm, and capable of brightening even the darkest days.
Her resilience was evident in everything she did. Loved ones recall her determination, like the time she believed she would go into labor early but pushed through and proudly crossed the graduation stage before welcoming her child. It was just one example of her strength, perseverance, and unwavering commitment to her dreams.
While the world feels dimmer without her, those closest to her hold onto the belief that she is now reunited with her beloved mother—two beautiful souls together again. In the days ahead, Desirae’s legacy will live through her children, her family, and the countless hearts she touched. Her story, her spirit, and her love will be carried forward, ensuring that her light continues to shine despite the profound heartbreak of her loss.
